Parents' Day is July 25th!

10 Reasons to Take Good Care of a Father

• He's a person. Every human being deserves a chance to be happy and healthy.

• He does real work. Most fathers step up their efforts to be a provider when kids come along. Plus the typical dad today is doing more housework and childcare than his own father did. Any kind of demanding work calls for respect and replenishment.

• He contributes to others. Every day, for twenty years or more, engaged fathers help make a family for innocent and precious children. Their effort gives them moral standing and a valid claim on the respect and support of their partner and society as a whole.

• The workplace isn't very friendly to men who put their families first. While it's certainly hard for women to juggle home and work, men who stick up for their role as fathers often get even less understanding on the job than mothers do.

• It's good for the children. A father's well-being affects his children in a thousand ways and shapes the course of their entire lives. A vital way to take good care of children is to take good care of their fathers.

• It's good for the mother. Fathers who are happy in their marriage are usually more empathic, helpful, and loving with their wives.

• It's good for the marriage. Fathers who feel cared about, listened to, seen and valued as a lover and mate (not just a co-parent), respected and appreciated, and - frankly - sexually satisfied are much more likely to stay married than those who do not. Besides the rewards for children and their parents, lasting marriages benefit society in many ways, such as bringing stability to communities and fostering respect for family.

• It helps the economy. Family and marital problems stress fathers and lead to physical and mental illnesses that increase the nation's medical costs and decrease workforce productivity. These are public health problems, and addressing them would add hundreds of billions of dollars each year to our economy (with related benefits to tax revenues).

• It's good for society. A culture that takes a stand for families by respecting and supporting the fathers as well as the mothers at their center will be more humane and decent for everyone.

• It's good in itself. Being compassionate, considerate, and generous with a father feels good in its own right. It is also a deep form of spiritual practice to "love your neighbor as yourself" - including the one sitting with you at the dining room table.

 

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